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Bao Nam Do
Reflections

2026-07

From my father's success to my own drive

My father's success almost ruined me. What saved me was not what he achieved, but how he achieved it.

My father is a successful man. I knew that early — from the way people called him “boss,” from the business trips, from the company of a few hundred people he built with empty hands. But to be honest, his success almost ruined me. When everything is already there, it is very easy to become lazy.

What saved me was not what he achieved, but how he achieved it. I used to think successful people worked comfortably. Instead I watched my father wake earlier than anyone else in the house and turn off his office light the latest. There were days he was tired — tired in a way not everyone could see — and I never once saw him use it as an excuse. He worked with a determination that seemed larger than the strength he actually had. That is a lesson I could not find in any book.

From that I understood something. I could inherit his company, his money, his connections — but none of those things are me. The only thing worth inheriting is the refusal to let yourself stop. And that is not something anyone can hand you; you have to build it yourself.

So I chose not to walk a path already paved for me. I built AvaB myself, built EduVision-AI myself, tripped and fixed things myself. Many of my projects failed, and I am glad they did — because at least they were mine. I don't want to grow up to be “the son of a successful man.” I want that one day, when people talk about me, they won't need to mention my father. That isn't me turning my back on him. It is the way I say thank you that I believe would make him proudest.